| Final Paper
3 page max + 2 page max gender moments attachment
Topic: Your
gender awakening or gender intensification of what
you thought 11 weeks ago.
How did your view of gender, doing gender,
and de-gendering change or solidify over the quarter and/or how did you
see awakenings or resistances in others? Use book 6 issues, gender
moments, issues & links below.
Use facts, observations, theories, concepts we used in class.
Scroll down this page for links that might inform
your paper.
Do 1-2-3 of your gender moments illuminate your point of
view? Can you turn opinion into effective action? Can we
de-gender?
write well. 3
pages MAX.
marks off for more than 3 pages.
Name & Title right on Page 1; citations (if any) right on page 3
Gender Moments -
1-2 pages of your Gender moments, coded O F N S.
(You may use the patterns you found in your gender
moments in your paper.)
you should have at least 10 by now (one per week).
You may have more.
These are moments you observed in your own life and
travels during these past 10 weeks
Now, code these moments and add up the codes.
O =
OLD men and women doing stereotypically gendered
things
F =
FLIPPED men & women flipping gendered
expectations, e.g., girl holds door open
N =
NEW men and women taking on the good of
the opposite gender, e.g., a man tending a baby,
a woman fighting a fire
S =
SOLUTIONS someone adapting to differences
to equalize the playing field, e.g., a woman
talking with man over a computer screen rather
than face-to-face.
add up the codes,
e.g., 6 O 2
F 3 N 1 S - this would
be from a person who observed and noted 12
moments.
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Below are some topics and
some links and resources that you may use in addition to
the book, discussions, and presentations
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browneyes' Rap on "Ain't I a Woman"
Clinton on Sojourner Truth
Remarks to the U.N. 4th World Conference on Women
Plenary Session
Are
¤.computers masculine or feminine
Gender Moment Notebook
You have been gendered
Monday assignment:
elders - difference, value
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dancing girl
[quads - we didn't do this in this
Winter 2008 quarter, so you may ignore this.]
exercise 1: halves exercise 2: 3 grps
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Little Red Riding Hood ß how we have changed-or have we?
Q: What is the
similar and what is different in these versions?
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mini-lecture big picture: The Chalice
and the Blade - by anthropologist Rianne Eisler
Aristophanes: God was mad at
humans and threw them to the earth where they split apart into
their two halves. they spend the rest of their lives
looking for one another.
The
Jessie Law (Only a wife will tell her husband the truth; his
mistress and girlfriend will lie to him.)
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All groups: look over pages in
book today and "divide" emphasis
Emphasis on one of three - but cover
all three in your overview
Overview, not book report. 2.5
+ 1.5 pages is ok
Create your "cover sheet"
10 min reading and get names x
issues basics report --> cover sheet
Plan resources & stage management
first
Circle Part I
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Groups and papers -
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hunters and gatherers
infanticide
Baboon and Leopard
- maternal instinct in woman even with mortal enemy
"water and orchids"
Values based - Feminist thought is
values based from the outset (not "value free")
Dominance
dominates
To have a middle class takes
intervention
To have humanity takes
intervention in "man's inhumanity to man"
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Wednesday: Circle
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Part III:
New and Old Families
Monday: Video on gendered
communication styles - "He Said, She Said," video by Deborah
Tannen, author of "You Just Don't Understand"
Wednesday: Circle Part III : |
Monday: sit counsel : how expressive were we in our
circle when the topic was not based on the book?
Wednesday: Circle Part IV : |
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1
New York Times article
2 Find at least two
blog-comments that interest you
3 List the 2 (or more)
blogger's names and numbers in list
4 Comment if you see a
"drift" - or better yet, blog yourself and report back your blog
number.
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Love is between the ears
sears the brain both women and men have different
"centers" of attraction to the opposite sex, with the left brain
looking at passing fancies and the right brain triggered for
"true" or "long term" love.
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news story - college & women
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single-sex schools scroll down, right hand side to image and
"Do boys and girls learn better apart?"
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Inner Circle: This
simply means that you become one of the major discussants on
that day. You are backed for the discussion by your
reading and your paper. Your written paper has 2 parts:
1. Prose
overview: your own overall observations,
opinions, conclusions and agreements or disagreements
with the authors' opinions. You do not have to
agree with the authors even though they will be one one
side or the other of the issue. Max 2.5 pages
2. Notes
on your reading: capture the major building
blocks of data that lead authors to their conclusions.
1-2 pages of these notes.
you also have a 3rd
part: Resources for discussion.
Resources might be book or film recommendations, stories
and observations from your own life, video clips, power
point slides, a You Tube contribution, a question or
"quiz" you might offer the class on the stop -- any
supporting material to highlight or enliven your
discussion.
COVER SHEET for the
group: everyone's names, the responsibilities the
way you divided them up, and your resources references -
e.g., maybe a book, film, or web link. This way, I
can post things on the web for others to have later.
CITATATIONS if you
use them: ASA format. They are not
absolutely necessary.
Outer Circle:
(any Part you wish) ONE PAGE. The one page
may be a succinct summary of the position or it may be
all focused on one issue, one study, one observation
that, for you, casts a clear light on the issue.
Come 5
min early on your day and set up the computer or
anything else you need - you might wish to write an
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EXTRA:
if you can summarize one issue succinctly &
creatively and add to what any group did to bring us up
to a higher level of understanding of the issue, you can
submit an extra one page summary the day following the
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Sample
Summary
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I. Humanist
Change To Augment the Best of Both Sexes -
Tabor
Science tells us how we got here. Faith and
religion try to help answer the question of why
we are here. Ethics, of which feminism is one branch,
asks what we should be doing here. The question
is not nature vs. nurture. It is a question of what
have we done and what shall we do?
Dominance dominates. We see it among humans; we see it
among fruit flies. Without intervention, the
lesser-dominant struggles and sometimes even dies. The
cultural habit of marriage has been put in place to
protect women and children.
Culture is an intervention against our baser, more
bestial or animalistic nature in favor of our higher or
more humane ideals.
Now that women are
beginning to equalize their standing in the
marketplace and their salaries, how does the
institution of marriage shift? What are the
functions of marriage and relationship across two
diverse interests when both parties could, in
theory, “go it alone?” Can we shift our romantic
relationships to guide and develop us when we no
longer need them for survival?
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I. Leveling
the Playing Field: Action and Analysis - Tabor
Social science has
focused on men and ignored of women’s unique participation in the making
of cultural history. This is evident in our common textbook notion that
the human response to stress is “fight or flight”. Our female author,
including women in the analysis, finds a second way humans respond to
stress: tend and befriend. This is a natural for mothers protecting
babies and spreads to women bonding with women in times of stress and
need. How wonderful to be reminded that a basic human instinct is to
bond, not to fight. We forget that when we study only the history of
men. We tend to see these two adaptations to stress distributed by sex,
but each sex is capable of both.
We tend also to
divide the sexes by how they approach romance, but myths, studies, and
rituals belie reality. Men like and appear to benefit from marriage
more than women do. Love is a mystery. It takes us as it will, breaks
down, and reorganizes gendered way of being into something new. In
the marketplace, there is rarely a setting where we can discern if
different potentials inhere in men and women because the playing fields
have not been level if. One ingenious study of ‘blind’ personal ads
shows us that men and women, when romantically interested, adapt to one
another like two spoons, with one the instrumental and the other the
expressive. There is a desire to “fit” depending on how one another
seems is rather than by their gender. If we are capable of both, let’s
stop labeling one sex one way and the other the opposite, and let’s find
what makes us human and keeps us together.
With aggression, it
is certainly fair to remark that most violence and aggression has been
at the hands of men, not women. But these days it seems as if some
writers wish to say, “We can, too:” Women can also perpetrate violence,
so bully bully for us. It is an odd to offer women’s potential to be
violent as evidence of equality. While we have even had a few women
suicide bombers in the past 8 years, let’s keep that number under 10
compared to the 1000s of men trained for violence. Let’s hang on to the
notion that for at least half of us, and then at least half of the other
half, violence is not a proper claim to equality.
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links
for "Parts" - be smart - be spirited - add to it
- be the solution - it's tomorrow
PART 1 Anatomy Identity
Aggression
Left
brain or right brain:
try it Dancing Girl
Rabbi
Shmuley Boteach
"Kosher Sex, Kosher Adultery, and Shalom in the
Home".
What I don't understand about sex is the fundamental
contradiction it poses to love.
While love deepens
with time and shared experience, sex is stifled by
relationship and routine ...
more.
email: those with sons
PART 2 Communication Styles
Stress and Aggression styles
Women's
vocabulary
Sexy Feminists
PART 3 Family
8 things no one tells you about marriage
Abortion news
For summary
link
ten til two
PART 4 Work
Glass Ceiling
news
NEWSWEEK THIS WEEK: WOMEN AND POWER
PART 5 Sexuality - Double Standard -
What works long term for romance
raunchy culture
Polygamists trial
Audio of final testimony
PART 6 Biology- understanding and
changing - PMS Transgenderism Repartive
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papers
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projects
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weeks - activities
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- what if
you have been
gendered
what if you
ungendered
what would you do
if you understood the source and function of
gendering in you
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girls boys
unidentifieds all of us
What are girls like?
What do girls like?
What do girls need to "work on?"
What is the difference between a girl and
a woman?
What are boys like?
What don't boys like?
What do boys need to realize?
What is the difference between a boy and a
man?
Why are unidentifieds unidentifieds?
What do unidentifieds see in identifieds?
What do unidentifieds want?
What is the difference between faith and
reason?
What is "in us"
What is in our relationships:
family, romantic, school, community, work, globe
What is in our social structure
What question needs to be answered first:
why? when? who? or what?
3 video on
communication styles: Deborah Tannen's "He Said, She Said," based
on her book called "You Just Don't Understand.
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give it to hu? new prounouns?
her, him, and hu?
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families and societies that "do well" are
those that thrive on value of traditional gender roles and family.
Women's "liberation" has served to minimize family and birthrates among
the "liberated"
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concepts
The Chalice and
the Blade
Linking and
Dominating
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data
in populations where women are no longer
subjugated by men, population goes down. Highest predictor of low
birth rate: education of women.
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theory
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