Gender Roles
men evolved from hunters
women evolved from gatherers
hunters have their eye on the goal, the result is what matters
gatherers are noticing everything gatherable along the way
[Research study about "noticing things"]
the women are into the now, the men are focused on goal
by the time the men are ready to "be there" the women have already been "there" so long that they are done and are probably p-o'd that the men have ignored them all that time. this explains the fundamental difference between men and women and why they so often seem to miss each other