The woman receives both her social status and her
economic viability not through her own labor, but
through that of her husband. This makes her labor
not her “own,” but a property of the male.
Gilman compares the traditional position of the
woman to the domesticated horse: Neither the horse
nor the woman is “free.”
The horse, in his free natural condition, is
economically independent. He gets his living by his
own exertions irrespective of any other creature.
The horse, in his present condition
of slavery, is economically dependent. He gets his
living at the hands of his master; and his
exertions, though strenuous, bear no direct relation
to his living. . . . The horse
works,
it is true;
but
what he gets to eat
depends
on the power and will of his master. His living
comes through another. He is economically dependent
worn dress or flashing jewels, her low roof or her
lordly one, her weary feet or her rich
equipage,—these
speak of the economic ability of the husband.
The comfort, the luxury, the necessities of life
itself, which the woman receives, are obtained by
the husband and given her by him. And, when the
woman, left alone with no man to “support” her,
tries to meet her own economic necessities, the
difficulties which confront her prove conclusively
what the general economic status of the woman is.
Like a horse, women are subject to the “power and
will of another” because their domestic labor, for
which no wages are received in return, belongs not
to themselves but to their husbands. Women are thus
rendered economically dependent.
... if women were actually compensated for their
work in the home, poor women with lots of children
would get the most $$ (they are doing the most
work), while women with no children and those who do
no work in the home (i.e., they have nannies, maids,
etc.) would get no compensation.
For those who argue that “a woman’s place is in the
home” because of her
childbearing
responsibilities, Gilman argues that “women’s work”
is actually mostly
house
service (cooking, cleaning, mending, etc.), not
child
service (bearing children, breastfeeding, etc.).
Thus, Gilman contends that the traditional division
of labor
is
not
biologically driven.
… rather than develop her own capabilities, women
reduce themselves to
attracting a viable life partner.
Economically, this makes sense for women, because
“their profit comes through the power of
sex-attraction,” not through their own talents
n…with
women’s economic dependence on men their
energies are focused on “catching” a man
rather than on being productive citizens.
n…spend
their time and energy on grooming and “finding a
man” rather than on intellectual concerns.
In denying her capabilities, she reduces herself to
being, literally, the “weaker sex.” . . . THAT IS
TRAGIC
nThe
sociobiological
tragedy:
. . .
that women are not “underdeveloped men, but the
feminine half
of humanity in undeveloped form.”
n.
. . Too much emphasis on their sex distinction.
Rather than a healthy “survival of the fittest”
in which women are taught to be strong and
productive, bourgeois women are mandated to be
soft and weak, dependent, emotional, and frail.
“We are the
only animal species
in which the female depends on the male for
food, the only animal species in which the
sex-relation is also an economic relation. With
us an entire sex lives in a relation of economic
dependence upon the other sex, and the economic
relation is combined with the sex-relation. The
economic status of the human female is relative
to the sex-relation.”
“…we are instantly confronted by the commonly
received opinion that, although it must be
admitted that men make and distribute the wealth
of the world, yet women earn their share of it
as wives. This assumes either that the husband
is in the position of employer and the wife as
employee, or that marriage is a ‘partnership,’
and the wife an equal factor with the husband in
producing wealth.”
nAs
long as what I get is obtained by what I
give, I am economically independent. (247)
The comfort a man takes with his wife is not in
the nature of a business partnership, nor are
her frugality and industry.
Man, in supporting woman, has become her
economic environment. Under natural selection,
every creature is modified to its environment,
developing perforce the qualities needed to
obtain its livelihood under that environment.
Man, as the feeder of woman, becomes the
strongest modifying force in her economic
condition.
nIt
is not the normal sex-tendency, common to
all creatures, but an abnormal sex-tendency,
produced and maintained by the abnormal
economic relation which makes one sex get
its living from the other by the exercise of
sex-functions. (255)
THE
SMOTHERING "NO":
Each woman born … live(s) over again the process of
restriction, repression, denial; the smothering “no”
which crushed down all her human desires to create,
to discover, to learn, to express, to advance
Each woman has had … the same single avenue of
expression and attainment; the same one way in which
alone she might do what she could, get what she
might. All other doors were shut, and this one
always open; and the whole pressure of advancing
humanity was upon her.
Wealth, power, social distinction, frame,—not only
these, but home and happiness, reputation, ease and
pleasure, her bread and butter,—all must come to her
through a small gold ring